What an Amazing Coaching Call!
"It's not about the money. It's about what the money says to you.
And the money says you're worth it."
-Janet Hutchens
OMG! I had the most amazing Coaching Call today!
We started out, as we always do, sharing Money Wins from the week. Every win is a touchdown, no matter how big or small we think of it!
The common theme that appeared was Follow-ups.
From there we explored the fears behind following up - with a client, a money situation, or anything that feels uncomfortable.
"Which of the four fears do you resonate mostly with?", I asked
The fear of being abandoned, the fear of failure/success, the fear of being fundamentally flawed, or the fear of out-shining?
As we dove into that, the realization that we self-fulfill our deepest fears magically appeared.
"My deepest fear is the fear of abandonment," I shared.
"My first boyfriend cheated on me, my husband cheated on me, my next significant relationship cheated on me. They all abandoned me. But it was my self-fulfilling prophesy. I chose those relationships because they were familiar and I knew they would abandon me."
"And to go even further, the relationships I had with good men who I knew would never cheat on me, I abandoned them. I never cheated on them but I always ended it quickly."
"My relationship with money was the same. I would get it and then get rid of it as quickly as I could. I would abandon it although I thought it was being elusive or abandoning me."
"We self-fulfill our deepest fears because they are familiar and, in a strange and twisted way, we can count on them."
"Money is a relationship."
When I said that, one woman gasped!
"Oh my god, I have pins and needles. I've heard you say that before but something just clicked this time. Wow!"
"I completely get it now. And I can see how I self-fulfill my fear of failure with money and everything other relationship and aspect of my life. Wow!"
Then I got shivers when she said that! It's so incredible when those breakthrough moments happen. The ripple effect is real - the energy of one person's epiphany vibrates through all of us. That's the core power of community.
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I'd love to welcome you into our community of amazing Money Mavens.
Best, Janet
PS: Have any questions at all. Respond to this email or email me - janet@hutchensmedia.com